Why Aren’t You Finding Love?

Published January 4, 2016

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For some people it is very easy for them to find their soulmate. However, there are many people who grow discouraged because they don’t ever think they will find true love. It is important to be patient and truly understand what it takes to better ourselves in order to find our soulmate. Many people never meet their soulmate because they simply are not following the basic laws of attraction.

Find Love with the Law of Attraction

The Universal Law of Attraction states that people are like magnets. A magnet attracts iron ore because that’s what it’s made up of. People attract other people who are “made up” of the same stuff, like hopes, desires, fears, feelings, and so on. For example, in a very basic way, when you smile at somebody, do people smile back at you? Yes, most often they do. This is the law of attraction working. When you smile people are drawn to your positive energy, it makes them feel good, and as a result they smile back which makes you feel good; like attracting like.

So, do you think this law of attraction is true in your own life? Do you believe you can you really attract the positive and negative just like a magnet? The things you want–like money, power, and confidence? Even the things you don’t want–debt, conflict, or poor self-image? How about love…do you think you can use this law to attract your one true love just as surely as to attract not-so-good relationships? Let’s explore this a little further by thinking about how you talk to your girlfriends about men, dating, and love.

Ask yourself this: Would you be attracted to a man who had such a woe-is-me attitude, low self-esteem, negative outlook on life, and no dreams for his relationship future? Um, I didn’t think so. So why should a man be attracted to you if this is the “man magnet” you’re casting out into the world?

But, before you get mad at the law of attraction, you must realize “it” doesn’t care one way or the other if you’re happy or sad, with Mr. Right or Mr. Wrong. The law works without judgment, without bias, and without any sentiment of “I sure hope she finds her dream man this time!” If you want to begin attracting your true love, then things are going to need to change and you are going to need to be the one who changes them.

Change your focus to the positive, to the self-affirming, and to your ideal, and your man magnetism is going to start attracting your Mr. Right (and, likely, many of them!) immediately.

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